12. 1 Date Night a Month. Jake and I have a bad habit of our "date nights" being us at home, with dinner picked up from a restaurant, catching up on Netflix. Which isn't bad....but there needs to be a time where we unplug and not wearing sweats (as I type it is currently snowing and I want nothing more than to be in sweats right now!). So, this is a little challenge for us to keep it fresh. I mean....how could you resist this?